Friday, February 27, 2009

What is a definition of bestfriends?

To me is someone whom I know very well and vice versa, who has been there for me through my ups and downs, someone I can trust with everything. Can that someone literally become my bestfriend in a matter of months? I don't think so.

In friendship, there is always a point of time where you will be so close as glue and the next minute, you don't meet or text each other as often as you used to. I mean, that's normal right? You don't have to meet or contact each other everyday to keep the friendship alive. Its never like that for me.

Friendship and Relationship is two very different thing. Relationship, its a MUST for you to contact each other. If one of them went missing, there must be something wrong. But friendship, no. I never felt something missing if I didn't contact my bestfriend for a day or maybe weeks. Cos I know, everyone has a life to live. Me and my bestfriend, Aishah, we met in 2005. We used to be very close, but now, not anymore but we are still friends. Despite us not contacting each other or meet each other for weeks or even month, I still feel that I can tell her everything. Same goes to her. Even though we have been missing on each other's life quite alot, we still can tell each other things. Now, thats what I call bestfriend. Doesnt matter where you are in this world, at the end of the day, you know you can count on her.

And my other BFF is none other then Lyn. I know her since 2006. Daguen, you know i know eh where we got to know each other. Haha. We used to conference everyday at MSN together with Dag. We were so called quite close la eh. She used to have a very possesive boyfriend back then. So we seldom meet. Don't say meet la. Can't even text her. Sometimes she goes missing for months then suddenly appear out of nowhere. Then we started to hangout. Late-night hangouts till dawn. Like I said, at one point, we were so close like superglue and after awhile, we drift apart. In friendships, there's also the ups and downs of it. You quarell and stuff. Its a lie if I say we never had our own misunderstanding. But overall, I know she is someone whom I can trust. A loyal friend, I must say. Someone whom I can count on. So whatever people say about her, I don't bother cos I know, I know her better then other people do.

Now these two people is whom I call bestfriends.

And my guy bestfriend is none other then my own boyfriend. Haha. I don't open up with guys easily but when I met him, he was the first guy whom I really felt comfortable with. I love you boyfriend. Love you soooooo much!

ps: i reallllllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyy hope to get the GST money by tomorrow or latest Saturday. Please please please!!










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